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Vanessa Mitchell is a native of Troy,Alabama. She is a licensed Cosmetologist and Instructor who has worked in the beauty and fashion industry for the past 21 years. She has experience in many facets of the industry as a model, salon owner, hairstylist and as an educator for Avlon (Affirm/Kera Care)hair care products. Vanessa serves as a dedicated military spouse of Michael, and mother of three sons. Additionally, she is a doting grandmother of a two year old baby girl. Vanessa's many travels in the military have allowed her to use her God given talents to spread the Gospel to women across the country through her pulpit-her styling chair. God has granted Vanessa with a special desire and purpose for serving the needs of women by helping them learn what Christ's Word says about the special role of women in their marriage. Through her life experiences and by using the book "The Excellent Wife", by Martha Peace, she has taught hundreds of women to seek the Lord first, so that all other blessings will follow.

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Being a Mirror

In a marriage, I always say that somebody has to represent Christ. That may be you or your husband.  In order for the other to see themselves someone has to put on the fruit of the Spirit.  For example, if there is a heated discussion and both are trying to out-talk the other they are both justified in their actions.  But if one put on self-control or gentleness the other can see that they are not being Christ-like; which causes them to check their actions.  This is why we are to be each others mirror.

I challenge us to put on the fruit of the Spirit which is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Galatians 5:22

So when our husbands look into the mirror this is what they see!

1 comment:

  1. Wow, I really like this and it is so true. I thank God for the Holy Spirit because he truly does convict me when my actions and attitudes are controlled by my flesh instead of the right spirit. Even though I don't always obey the leading of the spirit because my old nature does fight to have it's own way. I am without excuse because I do know what God and His what says, I just choose to be disobedient.

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